We were not created to be alone. Longing for a partner to have a meaningful relationship with is a natural feeling. But people are created using separate genetic markups.
They come from different cultures and backgrounds, and are different in numerous ways. The conflicts are hence bound to show up in one format or the other.
The fight or flight response comes to the fore. People tend to become aggressive or run away. Or they may create walls around their ego, in order to protect themselves. When inflicted with relationship issues, one must gauge that what are the ways in which their partners or they themselves react to stress.
Stress may be an indication of what there is to follow. What is visible may merely be just the tip of an iceberg. Psychological stress is alternately linked to cardiovascular diseases, diabetes and depression. Hence psychological stress must be avoided.
The foundation of a relationship is under scrutiny as a resultant of stress. Stress should be used to your advantage. Else, it may break down your relationship, which once used to be beautiful. It is therefore better to put in efforts to improve the relationship.
Running away from problems may not be the best way to address them. Instead, one must attempt to work things out. One must prove that one values one’s partner over all other things. When you want to give up, you must think of your partner as well.
Transfer your attention to the things that you find to be beautiful in the relationship. Jot down the points and a then write a love letter to your partner with all those things mentioned. When
people focus on the beautiful aspects of anything, their emotional well being enhances. It brings hope and makes one resilient. So divert your mind towards the most beautiful aspects in a relationship. Be grateful for them and be positive.
One must not iteratively keep reminding his partner that the past is hurting. It is preferable not to keep creating worst case scenarios in your mind. Instead, enjoy the present. Do your best for creating a better today and making tomorrow better still. In order to stay grounded to the present, see what your senses experience.
Gauge what you taste, hear, smell, see and feel, and jot it down. Maintaining a journal helps, and this shifts the focus away from your worries. It is helpful to jot down all your thoughts in a journal. With mindfulness, one is empowered to overcome the current situation and sees it with a new outlook.
All that you are presently undergoing might make a break you. Decide upon if you intend to grow from the experience. While making the decisions, consider the takeaways in either case. Make it a life experience.
Thinking too much makes one start believing in lies. Peace and joy that the present delivers is then gone. With the confusion that prevails, one makes bad decisions. The truths in the relationship must anchor an individual.
It is important to accept the people around without trying to change them. One must relax and keep the faith in the process. When things are out of control, let go of them. Go with the flow. All decisions that you make must be based upon hope. Be confident about the future.